Is it so hard?

Today I was sitting with my friends in a coffee-house, drinking cacao and talking about relationships. We were just like four friends from "Sex and the city", but much more younger, but in this case age doesn't play an important role, it depends on your experience, which I had enough for my ages. It was funny, but during our conversation I noticed that I had more boyfriends from other countries, than in my own city. That sounds ridiculous, but I can cross the countries on the map, where I had a love affair, and the list would be sufficient. My friends did the same and noticed that it's better and more reliably to find your soulmate in other country, 'cause guys of another mentality sometimes appreciate you more.

I have never been a fan of relationships with a guy from abroad, 'cause I need a man next to me everyday, in every case, I need to feel him closer to me, and of course I've never been mad about the idea to marry a foreigner, like some girls do, but taking into account all these facts, I should admit that it's really hard to find a person you may fall in love with or even your soulmate. Nowadays for many girls it's easier to find a soulmate (the only one!) from abroad than in their own city, that sounds crazy, but for some it is true.

I'm not sure about myself, I allow the possibility of meeting my soulmate down the street tomorrow, but my experience and a bit of cynicism tell me that it is just impossible. So I am sitting now next to the question "Is it really so hard to find yourself a half to be happy with?". Reading this question I feel myself Carrie Bradshaw sitting alone in the night only in couple with her laptop and asking herself about relationships with men, but I want this moment to be the only one during my lifetime. 

I don't want to believe in this complications!